Nov 21, 2024
Have you ever wondered what truly sets successful people apart from the rest?
In this episode, Tiffany explores the incredible impact of mindset on our lives and the unseen ways it can either unlock or limit our potential. Drawing on personal experiences, Tiffany takes a deep dive into the transformative power of believing in yourself and your vision, no matter how uphill the journey may seem.
Tune in for an inspirational and conversational episode that will motivate you and equip you with the tools to wear confidence as your daily accessory.
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Timestamps:
[00:00] Intro
[00:01] The power of mindset as a competitive advantage
[01:40] How mindset affects personal and professional abilities
[03:06] Believing in the possibility of success
[03:30] Internal ownership of confidence and success
[04:16] Identifying where mindset may be hindering progress
[04:59] The importance of spreading confidence and positivity
[00:00:01] Tiffany Sauder: Welcome to Scared Confident. I'm your host, Tiffany Sauder. I've come to believe more and more that the biggest competitive advantage in life is actually our mindset. When our head is right, it totally unlocks everything else that is inside of us. It unlocks our talents, it unlocks our ambition, it unlocks our creativity, it unlocks our ability, our physical ability. It, like, literally is the thing that unlocks our mindset, our confidence, our belief that what we are pursuing is possible. And when you're on a road less traveled, it can be difficult to stay in that space where you believe and you see yourself that way and what can happen, and you're like, dang it. No, this is actually going to be a reality in my life.
[00:00:50] Tiffany Sauder: I was reminded of it so vividly in my second one. She plays volleyball. It's a 13 U team. So, you know, the girls are still very much maturing and developing, and your mindset as an adult can be difficult to keep mastery of. And so it certainly is as a preteen teenager. And you can see on the court, like, literally whether they're going to win the game or not, based on the way that they walk onto the court, their confidence, their belief, the approach to the ball is like, this is mine, and I'm going to crush this versus being afraid of it and being intimidated by the other team. And I've heard Ainsley say to me, I don't watch the other team warm up anymore because sometimes the girls are bigger. You see some big smash hits, and it starts to mess with her confidence before the game has even started.
[00:01:40] Tiffany Sauder: Where is that playing out in our lives as adults? I mean, it's, like, easy to see it on the volleyball court of teenagers. That confidence is such an important part of her unlocking what she's practiced, what she's capable of, what her body is able to do. But when her mindset is not there, she does not swing as hard, she does not jump as high. She is not as aggressive in her approach to the ball. It's easy to see it in the game of volleyball or the game of basketball, but what about in our actual lives? Where is our mindset keeping us from fully engaging our talents, our abilities, our creativity, our vision? What is standing in the way? I experience this personally so much right now, and it's like, project, and it's like figuring out, how do I make the time for it? Where does it fit? How do I scale this project? How do we get tens of thousands of people listening to the show? How do I get more people to, like, understand what's inside of the course and how do I share what I know with other people and, like, how do I help generously and how do I scale it? And, like, what is, like, what do we do? And it's like I am the only one who has to believe it's possible for it to be possible. Now, there are certainly other people in this journey with me, but I am the only one that has to believe it's possible for it to be possible. And if I stop believing it is possible, it will not be possible. Isn't that wild? I think that is wild.
[00:03:06] Tiffany Sauder: If I stop believing it is possible, it will not be possible. Other people cannot make me do this. Other people cannot make me do good at this. Other people cannot make me show up confidently. That has to come from a place that is owned inside of me. Yes, they can encourage me. Yes, they can give me feedback. Yes, they can point to places where it's helping all those kinds of things, but it has to live inside of me.
[00:03:30] Tiffany Sauder: So where are you looking into the future of your life? Into your life of and where is your mindset, that thing that is missing, the thing that is missing in believing that it is possible for you and believing that you are able, that you are worthy, that you are capable, that you are talented enough, that you. Where is it where you just have to start with your mindset, because that becomes the unlock for everything else to be able to get into place. Will it be simple? No. Will it be easy? Absolutely not. But who cares? Who cares if it's not easy? Who cares? Get over it. Justin Moss always says he's our eos implementer. For years he said everything great is uphill. Everything great is uphill, and it's so true and so just make friends with that discomfort.
[00:04:16] Tiffany Sauder: So where's your mindset? The thing that's getting in the way? I know I've got a couple things in my world that I am just encouraging myself to have some patience with, encouraging myself to say, you know what, I just have to believe it. And I'm going to practice saying it out loud every single day, that these things can happen and these ands can be added. So, all right, crush your life. Thanks for listening. If this episode has helped you, I would love it if you just take a hot second and text it to a friend. It is the fastest way that we can grow the show and I'm focused on that right now, and it would be such a gift to me if you would help me do that. So thanks for listening and go step in and crush your life of and, and wear confidence today. Wear confidence as an accessory today.
[00:04:59] Tiffany Sauder: Thank you for joining me on another episode of Scared Confident. Until next time, keep telling fear. You will not decide what happens in my life. I will.
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